“It’s the daddy it’s best to give cash when visiting a pair who simply had a child, not the mom” – Nigerian man opines

A Nigerian man has courted controversy on Twitter after he shared his opinion about {couples} who just lately welcomed a toddler.

Taking to the microblogging platform, the person with deal with @seyedele mentioned individuals visiting new dad and mom ought to give cash to the fathers as an alternative of the moms.

In his protection, he mentioned ladies not often bear in mind who gifted them cash amid the stress of caring for the child, and they’re solely within the variety phrases and empathy they obtain.

He tweeted,

“Unpopular opinion: it’s the daddy it’s best to give the envelope of cash when visiting a pair who simply had a child, not the mom.

When you ask any mom what she remembers most from when her child was model new, it’s the phrases of encouragement, empathy and being current. Not the 5k new notes that Baba Dayo squeezed inside her hand.”

See his tweet under,

His tweet has nonetheless obtained many destructive feedback from netizens, as many disagreed along with his stance.

@dondekojo wrote, “I’ve by no means given the daddy something, make e go work. Reward for child (Pampers and child wipes) money and drinks for mom.”

@ireoluwatunde01 wrote, “This one is a lie o! I bear in mind each cash my baby was given o! And I do know the faces of the givers. Don’t thoughts awon Okunrin o!?”

@samuel_ukoha wrote, “At this level, I believe the daddy ought to simply carry the child.
You persons are annoying.”

@iamkaylion wrote, “Even me as the daddy will level to the mom.”

Nonetheless, a tweep who agreed with him wrote,

“Two the explanation why:

1. He’s the supplier. This lightens his load. Everyone knows nothing would circulation to the person from the girl from it in the event you give it to her. However in the event you give the person, they each get pleasure from it.

2. He’s in cost. It’s disrespectful to provide it to anybody else”